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Ask Amy: Bossy spouse wants husband thin again

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

Dear Amy: I admit it, I’m bossy and controlling.My husband of 30 years naturally pushes back when I pressure him too much, and I try very hard to accept that he’s an adult and is entitled to his choices if they don’t affect me. It’s taken a long time to get there, and reading your column has helped!But he has put on a lot of weight recently and is now at an unhealthy weight, with a big waistline (not good for a 65-year-old).I squandered my allotment of unsolicited advice years ago, but now it really matters! I hoped a recent doctor visit would bring about a realization, but evidently she said nothing to him about his weight.I think doctors are just wary of advising people about weight these days, but he was pretty thin until 20 years ago, and has never paid attention to his weight.I don’t know what to do now.Any advice on how I can get him to accept that some changes need to be made?I’ve had a heart to heart about how I want him around for a long ...

Horoscopes Nov. 12, 2023: Anne Hathaway, put in the effort necessary to reach your goal

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

CELEBRITIES BORN ON THIS DAY: Anne Hathaway, 41; Ryan Gosling, 43; Megan Mullally, 65; Neil Young, 78.Happy Birthday: Change begins with you. Act on your instincts, and you will discover something about yourself that encourages you to follow a path with fewer boundaries. Opportunity comes from believing in yourself and being willing to put in the effort necessary to reach your goal. Your charisma will appeal to people with something to offer and who want to be part of your plan. Your numbers are 8, 19, 21, 27, 32, 38, 47.ARIES (March 21- April 19): Make partnerships a priority. Feel out situations that can change how you live for the better. An opportunity to join forces with someone you love will get you a step closer to your life goal. A suggestion you make will lead to new beginnings. 3 starsTAURUS (April 20-May 20): A go-getter attitude will open doors. Share your thoughts, and the feedback you receive will give you the vision you need to follow through with your plans. Think bi...

Mother of late Malik Gant honors athlete’s memory with mental health foundation

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

This is a 2019 photo of Malik Gant of the New England Patriots NFL football team. This image reflects the New England Patriots active roster as of Monday, June 3, 2019 when this image was taken. (AP Photo) This is a 2019 photo of Malik Gant of the New England Patriots NFL football team. This image reflects the New England Patriots active roster as of Monday, June 3, 2019 when this image was taken. (AP Photo) Malik Gant, the late defensive back for the New England Patriots, made it to the pros in 2019. But his mom, Sirraya, said that success came with mental struggles that affected him deeply.In May, police in Miami, Florida, discovered the D.C. native unresponsive in his apartment back, just days before his 26th b...

Far-right thugs, football hooligans blamed for violence at London march

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

London’s Metropolitan Police said that physical violence by far-right thugs and football hooligans on the city’s streets Saturday was more dangerous than the far-larger pro-Palestinian demonstration taking place peacefully.An estimated 300,000 people took to London’s streets on Saturday — as protesters did across other major European cities such as Brussels and Paris — to call for a cease-fire in Israel’s bombing campaign on Gaza. The London march was between Hyde Park and the U.S. Embassy.Following the rally, Matt Twist, an assistant commissioner with the London Metropolitan Police, said that the Palestine Solidarity Campaign (PSC) event “did not see the sort of physical violence carried out by the right wing” on Saturday, which had looked to clash with the PSC and stop the rally. “This group were largely football hooligans from across the U.K. and spent most of the day attacking or threatening officers who were seeking to prevent them being able...

UN calls attacks near Gaza hospital ‘reprehensible’ as cease-fire demands grow

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

As Israel pummels Gaza’s Al-Shifa Hospital in the north of the Palestinian enclave, global organizations are rallying behind calls for an immediate cease-fire in the war against Hamas.The World Health Organization said in the early hours of Sunday morning that it had lost contact with the 700-bed Al-Shifa health care facility, one of the largest in Gaza, pointing to reports of those leaving the scene being shot.“As horrifying reports of the hospital facing repeated attacks continue to emerge, we assume our contacts joined tens of thousands of displaced people and are fleeing the area,” the WHO posted on X.Israel claims Hamas has installed armed command centers inside hospitals and other civilian facilities, but Doctors Without Borders said that Al-Shifa, which includes maternity and outpatient areas providing emergency and surgical care, had been targeted with power cuts while access for ambulances or evacuation had been cut too.“This is unconscionable, reprehensible and must ...

Negotiations set to resume after no deal reached in Andover teachers strike

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

Negotiations are set to resume Sunday afternoon between bargaining teams for the Andover Education Association and Andover School Committee after members were unable to reach a contract agreement after another day of negotiating on Saturday.The marathon bargaining session came after union members voted to strike, prompting the closure of schools on Friday and a community rally that drew more than 1,000 people to Andover Town Common. Negotiations are expected to resume at 12:30 p.m. on Sunday.In a statement, the Andover Education Association said, “Our strike vote has initiated the kind of bargaining we have wanted for months. We have a lot of ground to cover, but both sides are talking and that is because the community has voiced its support for what educators are fighting for. We want to be back in our classrooms as quickly as possible. The Andover School Committee can make that happen by reaching fair agreements on wages, especially fo...

Police: 2 men arrested after fentanyl, crack found during search in Roxbury

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

Two Boston men are facing criminal charges after officers executing a search warrant in Roxbury on Friday found a large quantity of illegal drugs and a loaded handgun, police said.Officers executing a search warrant in the area of 111 Homestead St. around 12 p.m. found 95 grams of fentanyl, 237 grams of crack cocaine, 67 various pills, 6 plastic bags of marijuana, and more than $4,000 in cash, along with a Sig Sauer P365 with 11 rounds in the magazine, according to Boston police.Keon Leary, 44, of Boston, and Christopher Brown, 56, of Roxbury were arrested as a result of the search.Leary was arrested on charges of trafficking Class A, trafficking Class B, unlawful possession of a firearm, unlawful possession of ammunition, unlawful possession of a large capacity feeding device, possession with intent to distribute Class B, possession with intent to distribute Class C, and possession with intent to distribute Class D. Brown was arrested on charges of trafficking Class A, trafficking ...

Guhle scores in OT to lift Canadiens to 3-2 win over Bruins

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

MONTREAL (AP) — Kaiden Guhle scored the unassisted game winner in overtime to lift the Montreal Canadiens to a 3-2 win over the Boston Bruins on Saturday night.“Like every team you have some off games, but our good is really good. When we’re on top of it, we can beat any team in the league,” Guhle said.Nick Suzuki and Brendan Gallagher also found the back of the net for Montreal (7-5-2), which beat Boston (11-1-2) for the first time since the 2019-2020 season.“It’s a group decision and a group effort to get back in a game and get something out of it,” said Canadiens coach Martin St Louis. “You have to understand the way you need to carry yourself on the ice every game to give yourself the best chance of winning. It doesn’t guarantee a win, but you understand what is needed to be done with and without the puck.”Pavel Zacha deflected a point shot from Charlie McAvoy past Montreal goalie Samuel Montembeault and into the top corner just 36 seconds into the game to give the Bruins a 1-0 ...

Joe Biden wants to complete his goals on civil rights, taxes, and social services if he’s reelected

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

WASHINGTON (AP) — President Joe Biden has a simple reelection pitch to voters — let him “finish the job.”So what does that mean? What’s left for him to get done?Unlike Donald Trump, the front-runner for the 2024 Republican presidential nomination who has been releasing videos and statements detailing his agenda, Biden hasn’t formally released his plans as part of his campaign.But his ambitions are no secret, and his goals for child care, community college and prescription drugs have been laid out in detail during the Democrat’s his first term. He also has unfulfilled promises on civil rights, such as protecting access to the ballot box, preventing police misconduct and restoring the nationwide right to abortion. Banning firearms known as assault rifles remains a priority as well.The result is a second-term agenda that could look a lot like Biden’s first-term agenda, with some of the same political challenges. Almost none of this can get done without coope...

Saturday’s high school tournament scores and highlights

Published Wed, 12 Feb 2025 10:10:50 GMT

HIGHLIGHTS FIELD HOCKEYIn the Div. 2 quarterfinals, Karissa Albin scored twice, while Ryan Crook collected three assists for No. 3 Somerset Berkley (20-0-1) in a 4-2 win over No. 6 Dartmouth (19-1-0).Emily Carney, Chloe Essam and Raena Crandall scored, while Devon Barry recorded four saves as Franklin (20-0-1) defeated Acton-Boxboro 3-0 in a Div. 1 quarterfinal.FOOTBALLQuinn Carver ran 24 times for 229 yards and four scores as Dexter Southfield (7-1) upended Pingree 42-13 in Evergreen League play.In the Independent Schools League, Hugo Djeumeni rushed for 427 yards and seven touchdowns on 25 carries as Tabor defeated Brooks, 53-20. … Marcus Griffin ran for two scores as Belmont Hill (7-1) defeated Governor’s Academy, 41-21. … Ty Ciongoli threw a pair of TD passes as part of a 28-point second quarter as St. Sebastian’s (4-4) defeated Thayer Academy, 35-12.BOYS SOCCERWill McManus netted two goals as No. 4 Pembroke (17-2-1) blanked No. 5 Ashland 2-0 in the Div. 3 quarterfinals mat...